{"id":4456,"date":"2011-03-29T19:55:52","date_gmt":"2011-03-29T18:55:52","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/etbscreenwriting.com\/\/?p=4456"},"modified":"2011-03-29T19:55:52","modified_gmt":"2011-03-29T18:55:52","slug":"what-the-bleep-do-we-know-day-twenty-40movies40days","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/etbscreenwriting.com\/what-the-bleep-do-we-know-day-twenty-40movies40days\/","title":{"rendered":"What The Bleep Do We Know – Day Twenty – #40movies40days"},"content":{"rendered":"
I am who I say I am. \u00a0I am the story I tell about myself– to me and to others.<\/p>\n I chose my story and I continue to chose it consciously or unconsciously every day.<\/p>\n Events in the past do not create or destroy my character– my reaction to, attitude toward and interpretation of those events is what creates or destroys my character.<\/p>\n For example: \u00a0Two individuals might be violently assaulted and robbed at an early age. \u00a0Or a parent might die while two different individuals are very young.<\/p>\n How each person reacts to those events and what they tell themselves about what those events mean shapes who those individuals are.<\/p>\n For one person each event is tragic and proof they are unlucky and the world is a hostile dangerous place. For another person each event is tragic but proof of their own resilience and the miracle of unexpected kindnesses offered by others.<\/p>\n As each person goes through life he or she continues to focus on and interpret each event in light of what story the person is confirming about themselves (and the world he or she lives in). \u00a0We are all constantly looking for relationships and situations to confirm what we believe is true. (You see…!) \u00a0We are constantly shaping our own reality.<\/p>\n The person who believes the world is hostile and dangerous will consciously or unconsciously interpret and mentally edit all sorts of events to confirm that story. \u00a0He or she won’t really notice, connect with or strongly react to the hundreds of events large and small that refute the story. \u00a0(Yes, but…. )<\/p>\n Likewise, the person who sees life as a miracle waiting to happen will follow the same pattern. He or she will not really notice, connect with or strongly react to all the large and small events that might contradict to that story. \u00a0(Yes, but…. )<\/p>\n<\/a>Well, I’m half way through my Lenten Project. \u00a0This was a great movie to mark that milestone.\u00a0Here are some fundament things I believe are true and that the movie touches on:<\/p>\n
<\/a>Exactly the same events can happen in exactly the same way but be interpreted completely differently by two different people. \u00a0The only thing that changes in the scenario is the individual reaction, attitude and the meaning each imposes on the event. \u00a0The only thing that changes is the story the person tells about him\/herself and the world at large. \u00a0That story is the individual’s “reality.”<\/p>\n